advice needed on benefits and immigration controll

[SBT_Owner]

How am i attacking you ? My opinion is the exact same opinion as you had in 1 of your 1st posts on this site .. i posted that post earlier today .

You saw it as wrong and did not think it would be allowed , i share the same opinion .. so it is hardly an attack on you . Since you found out that the thing you felt was so wrong was actually possible you changed your views and suddenly see it as being ok .

Human to human contact is all about sharing opinions and having views , people have different views , no need to get in a grump and leave a site because i see things different from you (well infact i see things the same as you but you changed your opinion ) .

You have every right to use benefits .. i never said it was wrong . Infact i said

A BC that needs benefits should get them .

. So you are wrong in that rant petal .

I never said you were 1 of the people that pop out kid after kid for more benefits ... that goes on , but i never said you were like that nor did i suggest you were anything like that in any way shape or form , when i talked about that i was replying to someone else and made NO mention of you !! .

I agree that ya partner should be working to support his family , as every guy should unless they have medical problems . (that is not an attack on you)

I have not sworn at you by the way .. ever . Never made threats against you .. ever . Just posted my thoughts on something that i see as being wrong . I agree your partner will not be getting any benefits but you will be and he lives off you , you will also maybe get a free flat/house in which you mentioned previously that you wanted him to live in . So he will be benefitting from benefits and tax payers money .

Your partners postion in this country does not anger me , i do not care if he is an illegal immigrant , when he has a kid that the state will support that suprises me (not angers) .

Your post is probably more "attacking" than any of mine and actually you mention stuff that i never said ... it is no problem though and you should not have to leave the site , quite simply i will ignore you from now on so please do not worry about having to deal with a human that differs from you in his thinking .

God bless .

[chana]

hi everyone just wanted to post an update. Ive recently been taken off income support, reason given was because i am married.
My youngest child is only 3 months old but ive been told i have to make a claim for job seekers allowance and work 40 hours a week.

I made a joint claim for child tax credits over 11 weeks ago which ive been told is still being processed and until its sorted my baby isn't allowed milk tokens.
My housing has been suspended and if my JSA claim isnt sorted in a few weeks housing will be stopped and we will have to move out. In the meantime i have to try and find the money to pay for rent to at least keep a roof over our heads. The only money i receive is £33 per week child benefits and i also have to start paying for my older son's school dinners etc.
My husband desperately wants to be given permission to work and support us but hes been told its unlikely he will be granted permission to do so until his HO case has been decided. Its been put with the HO legacy cases and he should be given a final decision before summer 2011.
Does anybody know if there is anything we can do?