Man check this wesbite
http://www.amen.ie/ for support. They will assist you with everything you need to know and your option. Amen is the only dedicated support service for male victims of domestic abuse in Ireland providing crisis intervention
Dont give up! this is your country you are 100% european citizen never forget
Your wife have no authority over you or your life [may be she doesnt know ] be bold and take your destiny in your own hands for the better .
Good luck !
I know mods wont allow this link. But you mods do whatever you do i have a moral obligation to post it considering what OP wrote if you read carefully.