Thanks for emphasizing that. I may give her my documents and an FLRM but unsigned. I'll then leave the house and tell her to call me when she has completed it honestly, then I will sign and proceed. This seems to be a safe option, as if she then cheats and forges my signature it's on her. Or, as ...

I may have to do just that. MPH80 observed that our relationship is in serious trouble (to paraphrase), no denying that. I am deciding whether to bully her into applying honestly by recording everything overtly, admissions and so on. Or whether to give her a choice, throw an honestly filled out FLRM ...

According to the solicitor we saw, the documentation 'won't line up'. The absences from the uk (probation violation) that she intends to lie about are clearly recorded in both of our passports. And also to quote him directly 'the home office are well aware of your absences from the UK'.

I've been told by an immigration lawyer (the one I had a consultation with) that an honest application has a good chance. And that any dishonesty about us living abroad during the probation period are doomed to failure. Her choice to lie seems totally irrational to me. To be honest, I need a bit of ...

Strange ....I meant a false/lying/ untrue application....the forum is autocorrecting wrongly.

Correction....'A fake application' not 'bad quality'! .....spellchecker issue!!

When I confront her about it I will video the entire conversation including me refusing to sign a fake application. If she then says that she'll forge my signature, I'll have it on video. From then, I don't know what I'll do. Perhaps I'll stay or just leave with our son.. I have 2 camps of people ...

Hi, my wife is from a non-eu country, I am a British citizen. As I said in a previous post, we are having some relationship problems and she has been displaying some very poor judgement recently. She got her spouse visa initially in 2011, but violated her probationary period by not remaining in the ...

Thanks for the info, very useful.

My level of concern is not high enough to consult with a legal adviser who would have a 'duty to act' and may inform the authorities. Of course, if my level of concern increases, I'll have to do just that. For the moment, my level of concern is just enough to field the issue on a forum like this one ...

I am a British citizen, and have a three year old son with my wife who is from a non-hague convention country. We have been having some relationship problems, and I'd like to know what would happen if she tried to remove our son from the country. My son has a British passport and a Japanese passport ...