Can I move to netherlands with dutch child and dutch Husbund?

[vanman21]

Hi

Wonder if anybody have some experience regarding the form 5005 Application for Verification against EU Law caring parent of dutch child.
We live in South Africa at the moment and I have a south African passport.
My Husband and 2 year old daughter has a Dutch passport.(I am the Biological Mother lol)
I did speak to the IND and they advised the best way to apply for residence visa is the verification against EU law. As my husband is starting a new business in the Netherlands and wont be able to my sponsor for until his business has been running for 1.5 years.
I would like to know what evidence do I need to present to IND?
Evidence of caring parent?

If anybody have some more details/advice or went thru the same procedure?

Kind Regards