skchatterjee2006 wrote:As I did not need to make an application, I was told very rudely not to sit next to her, as that would jeopardise the application process, which was not only embarrassing but also made me feel that I was committing some fraud!!
This is grossly unacceptable.
Next time anything like this happens in any embassy or border crossing, proceed as follows (very calmly):
1. Ask the person who made such a request to repeat it clearly and loudly, and ask your wife to confirm that she noticed the statement. Also ask any person around you to confirm that they witnessed the request being made.
2. Ask for the full name and position of the person who made such a request. If the person refuses to identify himself/herself, confirm with your wife and others that they witnessed the refusal to identify. Carefully notice (write down) the number on the booth where that person is located.
3. Immediately lodge a formal, written complaint against that person, addressed to the Consul. Mention all relevant information. Both you and your wife should sign and date.
4. Report this behavior, including details, time, circumstances and the name of the offender to the foreign ministry of the country in question.
Throughout all this, you and your wife must remain calm and never raise your voice.
Regarding the rest of what is being described in this thread, it is simply beyond belief. I agree with mym's advice to sue.