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URGENT ADVICE PLEASE

Posted: Sun Apr 16, 2017 1:32 pm
by iamdja
Good afternoon and happy Easter ,

I'm not a weak person but I feel lost and confused...
Here is my situation

- got married with an Polish EEA national July 2013
- came with EEA FP on November 2013
- Got my EEA2 5 years RC on May 2014
- problems started and we been seperately living since August 2015
- I'm a full time worker , never stop working a day since I came
- the EEA national been working as well, stoped working few times but she did register in job center so..
- we have many problems , I don't think that she will be helpful on supplying documents .
- we still legally married we didn't divorce yet as she doesn't want to go thru it and we had a hope for a while that things can change
- this matter is stressing me a lot and I would be very embarrassed and ashamed of HO will say that I have no longer right to remain in UK..


Here is what I would like to understand :

* What is the best to do ?
* Is my best option to divorce and then apply for ROR ?
* will ROR be easy in my case that she doesn't want to supply me documents ?
*is it a problem that we have lived under the same address for less that 3 years ?!
* what's is the chances usually for this ROR applications ?
* I don't want to travel for the moment since 1.5 year just because of this ....

Thank you very much in advice !! Hope to find the way soon as I'm struggling so much on this and I feel it heavier on my shoulders , plus Her refusing helping is depressing even more..

Re: URGENT ADVICE PLEASE

Posted: Sun Apr 16, 2017 8:56 pm
by Obie
It may be sensible to pursue divorce and see if you can retain rights. Provided your marriage had irretrievably broken.

Re: URGENT ADVICE PLEASE

Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2017 12:08 am
by iamdja
Obie wrote:It may be sensible to pursue divorce and see if you can retain rights. Provided your marriage had irretrievably broken.
Thank you dear Obie for your answer.
Your answer confirms to me that it is a tough and risky road .
Might work might not...
How about if she's willing to help ? Doesn't change something ?
or I'm still at risk according to the situation..

As far a I know I satisfy the requirement of :
3 years of marriage
1 years lived together
Currently working full time on a permant position so I qualify on my own ROR
No criminal records

The problem is that she is moody , she come to when she needs and she block contact when she want.
Makes me feel broken and terrible to be dependent on her !

Please advice me on this , I will be grateful forever :(