Baby on Way and so many Questions
Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2018 3:35 pm
Hello Everybody,
I never posted on a Board like this before and I hope that somebody could help me to get some advice how to get help in our situation.
Let me just explain our story:
My Fiance and I are together for about 2 years. He is Brasilian and I have a Polish Passport ( lived in Germany all my Life though). We met over the Internet supporting Orphans in Brasil. We visited each other and last year he proposed to me. Unfortunately, we were unable to live with each other as he was in the Brasilian Army. Anyway. On my last visit, I fell pregnant. And this baby means a lot to us as I didn't think that would be possible. I am also suffering from severe complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and he is the only person ever to get to me.
So he finished his Army Job this year and came to take care of me. Which is a blessing as I am struggling with my condition.
He can remain for 6 Months without a Visa. But what shall we do when this time expires?
Baby is due end of May. I am working Part time due to my Condition and Pregnancy.
I can not imagine to be alone which will also increase my suicidal thoughts.
I am not self-sorry for myself or try to bore anyone, but I feel so helpless.
Are there any options? At least to extend his time here to find one solution?
I never posted on a Board like this before and I hope that somebody could help me to get some advice how to get help in our situation.
Let me just explain our story:
My Fiance and I are together for about 2 years. He is Brasilian and I have a Polish Passport ( lived in Germany all my Life though). We met over the Internet supporting Orphans in Brasil. We visited each other and last year he proposed to me. Unfortunately, we were unable to live with each other as he was in the Brasilian Army. Anyway. On my last visit, I fell pregnant. And this baby means a lot to us as I didn't think that would be possible. I am also suffering from severe complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and he is the only person ever to get to me.
So he finished his Army Job this year and came to take care of me. Which is a blessing as I am struggling with my condition.
He can remain for 6 Months without a Visa. But what shall we do when this time expires?
Baby is due end of May. I am working Part time due to my Condition and Pregnancy.
I can not imagine to be alone which will also increase my suicidal thoughts.
I am not self-sorry for myself or try to bore anyone, but I feel so helpless.
Are there any options? At least to extend his time here to find one solution?