He split up with his ex-wife in 2011 and is now divorced (received his degree absolute in 2014) and we have been together since 2012. There is 20 year age difference between us and we don't care about that! We are genuine relationship, and I do know about his situation but it doesn't bother me in the slightest because it's our love that counts. I am expecting our first child in a few months time & we have already got a case going on with the solicitor under FLR(O) category. He has managed to get his passport back from Indian High Commission thanks to his solicitor so that we can get married!
We had a meeting with a registrar at Notice of Marriage, who ridiculed us (him more than I) and made us feel like we are faking the whole thing. She asked us series of questions, together and individually and then said she is going to send our information to the H.O and she said she's 99% sure they will want to investigate, which is fair enough.
We have received a letter from the H.O, and she was right - they have said they're investigating our case as they believe our marriage is not genuine and will take a further 70 days to come up with a decision and we must provide further information as and when they request it.
What is going to happen here on-wards? Firstly, I am worried that me and/or him are going to end up with a criminal record when we are completely innocent people who just want to get married so we can strengthen our case and live our life happily as a married couple, which is what we have always wanted except we couldn't at the time due to being married at the time and also not having his passport! Also because I don't want to get stressed while I am pregnant as my pregnancy has enough complications as it is!
