I looked through the Naturalisation timelines thread and apart from a few cases where spouses got a response within 2-3 months, most of them seem to be taking very long! In fact, there were loads of posts from folks who applied last year seem to be getting their approvals now

Other routes like Tier 2 / 10 year residence etc. seem to be getting processed so much faster with responses coming in just 6-8 weeks.
I was wondering - am i being paranoid? Do spouse applications generally take longer to process? Is there still a chance that I'll receive a response in the coming few weeks or at this stage am i better off giving up and expecting my application will take 6+ months to get any response?
Are there any other spouses who applied 3+ months ago still waiting? How are you handling the uncertainty?