[quote="GLH2012"][quote="summer2013"][quote="Time503"][quote="Call me dude"][quote="summer2013"]i have been refused with no right of appeal
waiting to see the refusal letter[/quote]
Sorry to hear about your refusal....wow.this guys are high on something.what was the reason they gave?[/quote]
Summer2013, refuse the HO putting you and your family down emotionally! You have to keep fighting until you get the desired decision. In the interim enjoy your life as much as you can for nobody can remove you and your family! You have children born here and any attempt to remove them will be against their human rights!!!
Stay strong, they may delay it but cannot deny it!!!!!![/quote]
thanks for you encouraging words
what kills as slowly is delay dear!!! because what we are waiting for is to start a normal life, to have a proper job and not to worry about saving money for courts. 3 years ago we spend 4 ground in court and here we are again in this shit. i can wait if i dont have to worrie about bills, job. we leave in a democratic country but they humiliate people very badly, 10 years leaving here not a joke!! i feel a failure to my son, feel inferior toward friends. I PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE ME STRENGTH TO CARRY ON[/quote]
@Summer2013, sorry for your refusal and i quite understand how you feel and somehow I am compelled to share my story with you, You will have clarity when you receive the refusal letter and then you'll know what your next course of action will be but remember YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE TO YOUR SON. You are a STRONG person who is trying to settle your family.
I too was refused in my previous application as carer of a British citizen(EU application) in June 2013 after waiting 19 months for a decision, then lost my mum in Africa the next week. I had no funds for appeal nor did I have HO fees (£1011) for me and my dependent daughter for FLR(O) application as suggested by HO in my refusal letter. I was lost, depressed and heart broken. Even apologized to my kids for failing them because other kids had a better quality of life than them. Imagine as a single mother, food was a luxury.
Then in July, God started to work in my life as a family member gave me the HO fees, i approach a solicitor who agreed to do my (FLR(O) application pro Bono (for free) and application was submitted on the 10th July 2013. Miraculously my application was granted on 20th of August, just over a month of applying. I am still reeling at the speed God worked in my life and i can now travel to attend my mum's funeral this month.
The God who has given me this calm will help you and I will pray for you. You will have a miraculous grant of your visa. BE STILL![/quote]
@GLH2012
Thank you for encouragement. As you have stated most of we are in financially same situation with family and kids. We wish and pray a better situation for everybody who still struggling.