Thanks again CR001!
We are getting married on the 26th of September 2015. We are hoping to submit a spouse visa application as husband and wife at the end of November 2015.
I resigned from my job at the end of May. I was working with my previous employer for over 4 years before I resigned. So basically, I resigned in May, went to India in June and came back to the UK in August to prepare for our wedding in September.
The reason why my situation is complicated is that my parents DO NOT qualify for an adult dependant relative application. They are able to wash and dress themselves and also have access to medical care in India. However, I am the only family member who can assist at this time. I will need to go back to India for a few months.
If the ONLY way to support my partners spouse visa is for me to be in employment, then I can look for a job in the UK instead of going back to India. However, I will definitely have to resign again soon after he gets his visa and go back to India.
Failing everything, as a last resort my partner will have to leave the UK in January, wait until I have returned from India, found a new job here, and completed 6 consecutive months of employment and then apply for a spouse visa. I guess this way the visa application will look better? However, realistically I think if we follow this route, it will be around July / August 2016 when we can apply for a spouse visa, which means long distance again for around 6 - 7 months.

I understand why these complex visa rules exist, but it makes family life very hard.... I feel like I am either abandoning my parents or my partner.... which is not a great feeling....
Thanks again for all your help!