Wanderer wrote:We planned for this for our UPV, made sure we had paper joint bank statements, joint utility bills etc, in fact we are still not paperless even now, old habits die hard...
You can't really do this on a wing and a prayer, needs to be planned in advance since UKVI check and double check and assume nothing.
Wing and a prayer yes that describes me quite well.
8 years just flew by!
Could not open bank account, no work permit (trying to open joint account didnt even enter my head).
Cannot have utility bill without work permit.
Everything was 50/50 water bills (no name, this is how they do it in thailand), electric bills (again no name), private rental contract, landlord does not declare or pay tax.
Yes Casa you are totally right.
Marriage is just printed dots arranged in a pattern on a piece of paper with a ceremony to go along with it. Lasting relationships are totally independent of this and marriage is no guarantee of one.
Marriage was conceived to allow the male to inherit/own the female’s property and to contractually own any offspring. None of which I have the slightest interest in doing.
Awesome forum btw you've all been very considerate.