Y'see he's never earned a salary in his life, he is a high functioning autistic (I would've never known if he hadn't told me, except there's some humor he can just never tell when i'm joking or not) and I guess he's been deemed unfit to work by the U.K government forever, he's 26(i'm 31 i've worked since I was 18 sometimes i've held two job) and never had a job and has no confidence honestly to getting one because his autism makes him freak out in one on one situations with strangers so he can't do interviews period...
Now i'm trying to find a loop-hole of how to be with him in a couple years as from what I read marriage isn't enough, if he can never make that 18.6k salary a year, I did read that salary can be substituted with savings(but universal credit doesn't count towards that salary, from which he gets about 700 pounds a month, which would be what 8,400 a year, im told that's kind of high for the area where he lives, because of the autism I guess he gets more )
As for me I make a salary of about 32k dollars a year, but I work as generic clerical government job nothing special that I can get a work visa for (but hey plenty of paid time off), after taxes and everything else that comes out my checks, I can probably save about 10k a year without too much stress but that also depends on how much of it I spend to visit him, but i'd rather not have to wait 6 years to make it to 60k and meet that financial obligation, from what I read elsewhere, before the tories took over (whatever that means please excuse my american ignorance all I know is my working class friends in the UK seem to hate the tories ) my boyfriend was considered disabled by which I read the financial requirement for a spouse visa didn't apply.
Aside from me saving 60k are there other options? Can I marry him here in the U.S then slither my way into the UK, I do not plan to live off benefits, I don't mind working I like to feel helpful. Besides the 500-700 pounds a month people get off benefits or as it's called, universal credit? I think i'm a little too spoiled to not want to earn myself a little more.
I am definitely not trying to move in and mooch off the country. If anything i'm trying to lovingly encourage this man to be more and want more (and actually we can say he's part self-employed now, as he has been making a few hundred dollars on twitch.tv every month which will in the end probably equate to about $6,000 a year, but that's still no where NEAR 18,600, and i'm not sure how that's supposed to be affecting his universal credit because he hasn't reported the twitch income... ) , then to do nothing and be content because he's a sweet guy and that's priceless.

Honestly I guess I could ask my family to lend me some money that I could pay them back when I start working in the U.K to reach that 60k. His family is I guess 'working middle class' meaning they probably have like a thousand in the bank. My family is middle class they can throw money at fancy cars, jewelry, purses and that non-sense, I've never asked them for anything and i'd rather keep it that way but i'll consider it a last resort.
thank you to anyone who took the time to read this, it's been hard i'm a practical person and I like to know the future can be planned for. I like stability. he is very day by day ... we'll deal with it when we get there but I realize to an extent these things need to be planned for if they're ever going to happen plus planning and knowing my options makes me much less stressed.