Just had the absolute wonderful pleasure of getting married to my Croatian girlfriend through the last 2 years or so, I will try to make this short, but I feel a little writing is in order as I can not find anything like this on the forum, at least not with this twist.
I meet my wife on the internet and after maybe a year of friendship, it went into quite a bit more and on the 20th of June 2007 she came to visit me in Scotland where I live and work. (I am danish) Things went very well for us in terms of our relationship, and apart from a trip to Denmark after 4 months, we did not see any problems towards returning to the UK for the duration of her 6 month visit visa. Rightly so, there was no problems, and we got issued with a new 6 months for her to visit, and at the time we felt a sense of relief that we could remain together and get to know each other.
To make things short, we have been together from the 20th June 2007, went to Denmark in October 2007, stayed for the duration of the visa, returned to the UK, stayed for 6 months, went to Denmark, back for 6 months then Croatia for a few weeks and returned to the UK, then again to Denmark, got married and we are now back in the UK.
As of yesterday when we returned to the UK from Denmark, the immigration officer informed us that your not actually allowed to stay more than 6 months with in a 12 month period (I believe that is how he put it). I feel I should have known this, but before she came to see me the first time, I went page up and down on what I could find on visits to the UK, and either missed this or did not find anything stating it. (proof that loves makes you either blind or stupid or both)
3 times we entered getting issued with a new 6 month visit visa, and apart from forgetting to book a ticket back to Croatia this summer when coming back from Croatian (This is a must for non EU citizens entering the EU) we were not issued with either warnings or cautions regarding her frequent visits. (There was a caution on entering when we forgot to book the ticket, but they did not tell us)
We really did not have any intentions of keeping this up and I asked her to marry me, and I am happy to say she said yes. We made all the arrangements and got married last week in Denmark.
Once again to return, this time with a planned trip to Croatia to apply for a spouse visa. Now it gets interesting...at least to us and anyone that managed to read this far and not get lost in my endless rambling.
As I wrote above we had quite a chat with the immigration. First the information about staying more than 6 months with in a 12 month period. Lest to say we both went pale and expected that things would not end up with a honeymoon, but a one way for my wife back to Croatia. We explained the situation and showed all the documents they asked for and were asked to wait until they knew what would happen.
In the end she was issued with a spouse visa for 6 months in her passport, and I guess this would at first sound like a very happy outcome from a situation that could have caused quite a stir in our life. We still have to apply for the 2 year spouse through the normal application process. This is what we know, anything from here I hope to end up with a good bed time story for our children some day.
All of this, have created a storm of questions that we would very much like to find answers for.
The first one and most obvious, is this as horrible a mess as it seems, "I wish" wont make the last small two years seem a lessor nightmare to come, since I now feel we have damaged our chances to get the spouse visa, but there were no warnings given to her frequent visits so I am half and half on that issue also since she got issued with a 6 month spouse visa at the immigration, and can invoke the full rights of that visa.
My next question goes with the actual application form, where she is to stated her current location in the application. Since she was, until yesterday, living in Croatia, but now have a spouse visa (6 months in her passport) will that make our address in Scotland the current location she must submit in the application?
I shall cease my master piece for now, and hope that some of you will take the time to answer us, either for good or bad, on before hand, thanks
The newly married.
