I have a rather messed up immigration history and I was hoping for some information and advice to help my situation. I am a new comer and hope I am posting in the right place. I did do a search for "contact order" before posting and nothing came up - so I hope this topic hasn't been covered elsewhere!
I came to the UK in 1999 from Indonesia as a student. I met my partner and moved in with him after some time. I successfully renewed my student visa until 2001 when I gave birth to our child.
I overstayed in the UK after 2001 when my student visa expired and remained an over stayer until 2004. My mother in Indonesia was dying so I voluntarily returned to Indonesia and have remained there since.
Since 2004, I have applied for entry clearance as a spouse (my partner came to Indonesia and we were married here).
My application was refused on the basis that I had overstayed.
I then changed my name (i guess fraudulently

Also – the ECO said that he didn't believe our marriage was genuine. Our marriage is genuine and we have kept our relationship going since I left.
So since – my husband and I have been trying to get a divorce in Indonesia so that I can start again and re-marry under my genuine name and re-apply. However – it has been over 7 years now that we have been in this mess. I realise that I made some mistakes. And I realise that if we had got immigration advice from the beginning then the situation might be different.
However the position I am in now is that I have physically seen my son only 3 times in the last 7 years and I am likely if I see my husband once a year (its very expensive to travel to Indonesia from the UK and he is trying to save money to fit the maintenance requirements of the rules).
Currently the Indonesian Courts are being very difficult about allowing my divorce. Its been 2 years since I files for it and they are refusing on the basis that they dont feel there has been enough evidence to suggest that we should be entitled to one.
We were never married in the UK and didnt regsiter our marriage in the UK and therefore cant divorce in the UK.
I was thinking about getting a contact order for my Son as he is a British Citizen and has lived his whole life in the UK. He cant come in live in Indonesia as then he would be without his father and he would be starting life again in another country different language etc etc.
I was wondering whether a contact order would assist with my immigration history? An immigration adviser (level 3) said that once I have a contact order – I would be granted 12 months entry and then, if I could should that I had stayed in contact with my son during that 12 months period – I would get further leave to remain.
Has anyone heard of this? If so – under what section of the rules is it stated and which form should I use?
Also, if this type of entry clearance is available – does my bad immigration history affect my ability to enter again or will enrty clearance be refused despite a contact order?
Many thanks – I hope this atleast makes sense – I desperately need help. I really am suffering now for the mistakes I made in the past and I just want to be with my son again before he grows to old too know or care about me or resent me for not being in his life
many thanks
Chachi