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Ola2011
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Sad Girl - Terrible & Odd Situation - Please help me

Post by Ola2011 » Fri Feb 17, 2012 9:10 am

I still have problems with my expired visa. The situation has gone worse. I'm now an emotional wreck. I have no money. My mum is a poor single mum and vulnorable and my forever bullying father as become even more evil towards us all. He mentally and virbally abuse me all the time, imagine what he'll do if I'm in front of him. I've been depressed since 2005, still on medication, but scared o seek councelling, just in case they can't help me and they deport me. Which will make matter worse as I will have to face my father, and he will not be happy that I spoke to an outside about my feelings'situation.

I practically have no one, I'm too scared to open up to anyone, for fear that they will report me.

I need help, I don't want any public funds, I just want to be allowed to stay here, so I can be independent of him and be able to care for my mother and young ones.

Please help what are my options? I am Nigerian

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Post by Lucapooka » Fri Feb 17, 2012 9:14 am

Do you have a question with regard to UK immigration policy and procedure?

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Post by Ola2011 » Fri Feb 17, 2012 9:41 am

Thank you

Yes I do, I want to know what my options are, since my visa is expired and I'm terrified to go home, what can I do to rectify this situation?

I'd rather die than go back home to my father who will kill me slowly, and as we know, slow death is more painful.

Please help me, what are my options, I'm thinking of turning myself in, but I'm so scared that I will be deported. But I'm tired of living this way, I'm silently wasting a away in depression. I have so much I want to do with my life, I'm in my very late 20's

Please help.

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Post by Deviser » Fri Feb 17, 2012 10:46 am

I think you just chill out and enjoy your life as much as you can. Go out make friends and treat yourself normally. If you don't have visa nodoby gonna ask you for it in UK normal life if you don't go for any abnormal activity or involve in bad things. If you have no reason to back home and independent, I know 100s of people like you who are living in UK without visa from 10-12 years and they are living a good life even more than the people who have visas as they don't need to fulfill any conditions at all like visa holders.

If you are really teriffied by your father and want to stay in UK on humanity grounds, you should contact some human rights organization who work for this purpose free of cost. Describe you all situation to those guys and ask for help. They are the only people who can do something for you.

Ola2011
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Thanks, for the good Advice

Post by Ola2011 » Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:04 am

Thank you very much for your help and advice:)

The human right organisation is a great advice, I will look for help right away, and I pray I'm successful

Thanks and GOD bless you.

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