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by pootle » Fri Jun 08, 2012 12:52 am
Hi there, and thank you in advance for reading this.
I've been with my boyfriend from Australia for almost a year, living together since January. His Youth Mobility visa runs out at the beginning of October and we desperately want to stay together, but he doesn't have enough points to apply for citizenship because, as far as we know, he hasn't earned enough to make up the points. I'm not sure you can even gain points with that any more.
He has a job now, but as he's only been there for a couple of months they won't be able to sponsor him and, if they could, it's only an electronics shop so they'd probably not be able to prove he's invaluable to keep him working there.
He has a degree in sound engineering and wants to pursue a career in that, which is proving difficult right now.
We plan to visit Berlin and then go back to Australia for a month or so when his visa runs out, but if he comes back as a visitor and is only able to be here as one for 6 months in a year, we wouldn't be able to apply for an unmarried couple visa any time soon.
I'll be 30 in a couple of months so I don't think I can apply for a visa to live over there and I'm unable to work here due to mental health difficulties so I wouldn't be able to work there anyway.
Is there no other option than marriage? We would do it in a heartbeat because we know we'll be together for a long time, but I'm on benefits due to my disability and would lose a lot of them if we did marry, and so he'd have to get a decent job to provide for both of us. I read elsewhere on this forum that someone was able to sponsor their partner as a carer but does that mean he wouldn't be able to work another job? Would that even be possible? My mental health will be affected if he can't stay, and my Mental Health Team are asking me how they can help because he's been such a huge help to me since we met.
I hope I've posted this in the right section and welcome any advice. I'm quite tired because I'm not sleeping from the stress so I apologise if this reads a bit garbled.