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by pauldm21 » Wed Aug 15, 2012 8:23 pm
Hi folks,
just looking for a bit of advice on what I feel is quite a complicated situation for myself and my wife. I'll try to keep to the facts and have a few questions that I think I know the answer to, but would appreciate the thoughts of anyone who has had similar experiences.....
- Married my Peruvian wife in Peru in April this year.
- Plan was to apply for a spouse visa and return to the UK together (I had taken 3 months off work for this.
- 3 days after the wedding, there was a bereavement in the immediate family so I had to return home.
- My wife stayed in Peru to sit her required English Test, finalise the application and submit the application on her own.
- The English Test was the ETS TOEFL, which takes place approx. once every 6 weeks in Peru. We had to cancel her first test (which was booked way in advance) as she was accompanying me to Lima to try and catch an urgen flight home.
- The Test requirement for the spouse visa is 5 points for speaking and 5 points for listening.
- The next test was on 23rd June in which she passed the Speaking section, but failed the Listening section by 2 points.
- The next test was on the 4th of August in which she blitzed the Listening section with 22/30, but failed the Speaking section by 1 point with 4/30.
- She has essentially passed both required sections, but not on the same test date which I assume is the requirement.
- The next test is towards the end of September, which would realistically mean December or January before we get the Spouse visa. Neither of us could cope with this wait.
So.... we are now at the point where we can't stand to be apart any longer. It is putting our relationship under too much pressure, with the stress and expense of each test, then the long wait on the test results (her last one cost me over $500 between the test itself, hotel and flights) and took 14 days for the results. One of the reason we married in Peru was that we were under the impression it was an easier route than the UK Fiance visa and marrying in the UK. This has certainly not been the case and the aside from living apart, the recent death in the family has only made things even more difficult for us.
In terms of the Spouse Visa, we meet the meet the maintencance requirement, can prove the relationship is pre-existing, have suitable accommodation and are obvisouly legally married. I feel like we have gone to great lengths and expense to jump through every hoop and are just coming up short on the English language requirement.
I now feel like we are being forced into corner by the immigration rules. We want to be together and feel the ONLY way we can do this is to go for another 6month general visit visa. This means my wife not be able to work, and only 'puts off' the problem with the spouse visa. Also, in these 6months, there is the possibility the immigration laws may change again making it even more difficult for us. It also means the expense of another trip back to Peru to submit the spouse visa application once she has passed the English test.
I realise I am just venting and fully expect to be told "the rules are the rules" but I can't help thinking that a bit of compassion and a 'case-by-case' approach is just is this situation.
Has anyone ever obtained a spouse visa on compassionate grounds?? Or is anyone aware of what exceptions to the rules may be made in what circumstances?
Thanks