-I applied for asylum about 10 years ago
-Changed names by deed poll about a year after I applied
-Got married in a Church of England comming up two years now
-Applied on form Set M as my wife has permanent residency thinking that will make them give a quiker decision as I had waited for a decission from the home office for more than ten years.
-Recived a reply that the SET M application is valid.
-I recieved IS96 asking me to report to an immigration officer every two weeks.
-when I went there to report for the second time I was interviewed and asked to sign a declaration. I was also issued with an IS35.
The interview was basically about my identity and bordered on mitigation. I must admit that I was so confused and off course worried. It basically sayed that the secretary of state may use the information in order to get travel document in case I was to be asked to go.
-From what I have gathered they may have rejected my asylum claim and not notified me correctly or used my old names as they have communicated to me in both names on different occasion through there post.
-Around that time I was in a bedsit in otherwords shared accomodation and all my fellow tenants new me by my current names. If the home office sent there refusal in my old names the mail might have been sent back or destroyed. I have always communicated to the home office using my current names and my solicitors informed them of my change of names. I also had to go to the home office when I was applying for my NI as they needed me to go there and have them ammend there details.
-I have since established from my MP that my case was rejected about 5 years back.
-Points to note are

1. I made the home office aware of my name change
2. I have always notified the home office of my change of address
3. I have communicated and have had replies from the home with all my applictaion.
4.Only when they had a dicision to make based on my marriage did they decide to start taking action.
My

What can I use as my defence.
Any advice is very wellcome. I have had legal advice but would like to be more informed as the legal advicesores are sometimes not upto it.
I thank you all in anticipationof your help.