Some advise to all: A spouse, may it be a male or a female go through a lot of pain, effort, hard work and great determination to call their loved ones over to a country they belong to (UK, USA, Australia) etc. What may hurt one is when applicants don't understand the value of what someone has done for them and one day say "what did you do for me, coming here was in my destiny, you did f all". No matter which situation you are in, being Spouse or Applicant, appreciate one another's hard work and determination, do not say or do anything which may hurt one another. You and your partner are in one boat, both you need to sail through life to make it eternally to heaven. Please think before you speak to one another. My friends sisters were in UK, they called their partners over and as few months went by, the applicants said "we came to UK on our own accord, you did nothing but to fill some few forms", I wonder how much pain these girls may have been in
I just hope that each partner are compatible and understand each other, just like how heart and love understand one another..
