God's Authority wrote:Hi Everyone,
I have been a silent follower of this forum and I thought perhaps its time to register and get some views on my situation.
Very briefly , I applied for FLR(O) in August 2012 and did my Biometrics in March 2013. Myself as the main applicant and my child and partner as dependants.
I met my partner here in 2009 and somehow along the line I got pregnant, my child was born with a genetic disorder, which could be life threatening when the illness associated with the disorder occurs. My partner and I actually met whilst on study of a Masters programme and today we are very much together along with our daughter who is on daily medication just as a precaution and to boost her immune system. She also see the paediatrician regularly. My partner and I had student visa, then post study and then we
decided that as there was no other option to renew our visa and we could not risk going back home ONLY because of our daughter, we could try the FLR(O) other reasons and on compassionate grounds.
We are both currently working and we submitted an in time application as well. We provided evidence of our employment, doctors report for my daughter and myself, as I have had a couple of medical issues in the past. We also submitted all details of our promotions at work, recommendation from
our church of worship with regards to contributing to a church project and also we submitted evidence of our intent to marry in 2011 but whcih did not hold due to relationship issues we were having at the time.
We also provided all of our daughter's medical history, birth certificate and supporting statements from the paediatrician and supporting health workers.If it will make any difference.
In our supporting statement,we stated clearly that we were applying on compassionate grounds and that we could not go home due to our daughter's condition and because of the stigma,pity and fear people back home associate with our daughter's condition and the fact that if our families discover they will never let our relationship go on. We stated clearly that we didnt want our daughter to grow up in a broken home as it is through no fault of hers she was born with the genetic condition and we are counting on their support to help us remain as a family.
None of us is british, so it kind of freaks me out when I see people who have lived half their lives here getting rejected and people with british kids and spouses getting rejected as well.
Am just so scared for my daughter, we need all the support we can get for her,hence applying in the first place. As it is, my employer is already beginning to give me the side eye, but I have committed their hearts to God.
Sorry for the long post people, but what do you make of my situation?
I know every case has got its own merits but .......
Lest I forget, I now discovered am pregnant again and I will be going through a challenging phase, as I have to tick a couple of boxes before I get to keep the pregnancy due to my daughter's genetic condition, if it makes any sense. Its all so over whelming for me really , I contacted my MP a couple of times no response. Everything is just so somehow for me now and I just sincerely hope God doesnt give up on me
God is your strength.