progeny5kay wrote:God's Authority wrote:Kukuwife wrote:God's Authority wrote:Hi everyone
So I finally heard from the home office and my application for leave to remain on compassionate grounds has been refused. I cannot even bring myself to read the contents of the letter but I saw that there is a right of appeal. Am shaking and crying now, few days to a year since application and that's what I got. Deadline for appeal is 28th of October and I don't know how long it will take to get an appeal date or if it will be better to reapply. Just confused, where do I start from? Pregnant and now my source of income is on the line. How do I pay my bills or support my daughter and myself especially now that am pregnant? Am just tired. Please lovely people kindly advice me, do I reapply or just appeal? What's the time frame with appeal really? Thanks in advance.
God's Authority- you have been advices adequately by fellow members and I pray that God will give you the strength. I will also say that you should be positive and remain calm because of the pregnancy. Since you have appeal, your status remain the same as before pending the determination of the case. on a compassionate ground you will win the appeal.
Dear kukuwife, thank you so much for your kind response. I am grateful. I guess the next step will be to get a lawyer and fight through the appeal with God by my side. I haven't even touched the documents since I last checked it. Am totally exhausted so will just take it easy as you rightly said.
Thank you so much once more. God will surely bless you.
Big thank you to everyone for your kind support, God bless you beyond measure. I will surely let you know how everything goes
God's Authority I am really sorry for your refusal and I am broken-hearted for you but i want you to stop shedding tears now and confront this head on like a soldier that you are, girl!!!! as tough time don't last tough people do. it is not about how many times you fall but how many times you were able to get up and give a good fight, when you can can you please shed light on what grounds you applied and what they say in the refusal letter so we can see how we can help you with appeal in case you don't have a solicitor and i do think by the grace of God you ill win your appeal you shall have the last laugh may God Almighyt hear your prayer and mine peace
Thanks dear,thank you too nilesmarques. Even they did confirm to my MP that my application was on compassionate grounds the refusal letter says I applied on medical grounds. Apparently a trick to refuse me as they clearly know with article 3my application was bound to fail.
They started with the usual, I have spent my formative years in my home country and wouldn't have lost my ties, I am have not spent half of my life here, am not the parent or partner of anyone British, you know their usual pick up lines.
Then they started with my application, they said my child will be able to settle well in my home country since she is still 2 plus and that she should be able to get care there.
They then concluded by saying, they acknowledge that the care she is getting here will not be the same as that she will be offered back home and we might not even be able to afford it but they know with our support she will be able to adapt in our home country as we do not qualify under article 3.
So that was the long epistle I got on Saturday. Matter of fact it was decided on Friday and I got it on Saturday and I think I know why they did this, because on the 16th of October which would have been a year since we applied happens to be my partners birthday, so am guessing they'd be like we better send it before that date. Lol but jokes apart, that's what I got back.
I don't even have any solicitor, but I learnt it would be unwise to represent my self in court at this stage and I am thinking perhaps not to go with the lawyer to avoid being penalized or something because I wouldn't be able to help it when the tears start flowing, cry baby that I am.