DSA: The British government have been asking for all the documents you specified even though it is against the EEA/EU Family Permit rules. The correct EEA/EU Family Permit rules are as follows:-
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Documents that can be required when applying for the visa
The right of entry of your third country family members is derived
from their family ties with you, a Union citizen. All the Member
State consular officials can ask for is their passport and a
document establishing their family ties with you, such as
marriage or birth certificate and proof of dependence, where
applicable. Your family members cannot be asked to present
documents such as travel tickets, employment certificate, pay slips,
bank statements, proof of accommodation and means of
subsistence or a medical certificate.8
Passport with visa?
Your family members cannot be automatically turned back at the
borders if they do not have a valid passport or, if required, an entry
visa, when they are able to prove by any other means that they are
covered by the right of free movement and residence by establishing
their identity and family ties with you.
See here for full text...
Rights of EU citizens and their family members to move and reside freely within the union.
Guide on how to get the best out of Directive 2004/38/EC...
http://ec.europa.eu/commission_barroso/ ... _ec_en.pdf